8 Lesbian Flirting Tips to Make Her Swoon
Lesbian flirting can be hard to learn, but we’ve got some tips to help you make the lady you have your eyes on swoon.
1. Eye Contact
With so many different tips on how to flirt with a lesbian, it’s hard deciding which one is the most important. We say that making eye contact with her is the most important tip because you simply can’t get anywhere unless you make that pivotal connection. Eye contact is the most important thing you can do when you are talking to anyone, regardless if you are flirting with a man or a woman, if you are going for a job interview, or if you are giving a speech. When you make eye contact with the woman you’re interested in, you’ll notice that she will respond much better.
2. Light Touching
In general, women like to be touched lightly. Sometimes all it takes is brushing against her arm lightly or even a brief twirl of her hair can be the difference between “just friends” to “I’m interested in you.”
3. Plenty of Compliments
You’re a woman, so you understand how important compliments are to your self-esteem. When you are interested in a lady, you should make a point of telling her how gorgeous you think she is, how witty her jokes are, how insightful she is… Whatever you want to compliment her on, make sure it is sincere and truthful!
4. Have a Good Sense of Humor
Just like flirting with a man, you should have some kind of sense of humor. Sometimes people assume that lesbians are serious individuals who don’t know how to lighten up and laugh. Show the lady you like that you have a witty personality and like to laugh and have a good time.
5. Be Positive
When you show a woman that you have a positive personality, you’re letting her know that you are a pleasant person and she’ll want to spend time with. Also, when you have a positive attitude, you are telling yourself that you’re going to win her over and rejection isn’t even an option!
6. Be Open and Honest
Being honest and open about what you want is crucial when you are pursuing a woman. You should feel like you have to say a bunch of nonsense just to get her attention. Don’t tell her the things that you think she wants to hear just to win her affection. If you are seriously interested in being with this girl, tell her!
7. Relax
Women are very intuitive (you should know that!) and she can pick up on things like if you are uncomfortable or nervous. So even though you may feel nervous about approaching her and flirting with her, you have to nip it in the bud, take a deep breath, and relax.
8. Take Notice of Her Body Language
Body language tells a lot about how someone is feeling and what they are thinking. So if she is giving off the impression that she isn’t interested (not smiling, looking off in the distance while you’re talking, or has her body pointed away from you), then she probably isn’t interested.