Discover the Right Way to Flirt With an Older Woman

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A lot of younger men think that they are at a disadvantage when they find an older woman attractive because they often believe that these ladies really want to date someone with their own age.

Little do they realize is that as a young man, you’ve got a lot going for you. Once you recognize the benefits that go with being numerous years her junior, you can take advantage of them. Knowing how to flirt with a woman the right starts by keeping these things in mind:

The Benefits of Being Younger

During the initial phase of starting to flirt with an older woman, you are going to catch her interest and curiosity by being playful and fun. You want to have that little kid mentality that many women find charming. Now keep in mind we don’t mean that you should pull her hair or say she has cooties, but instead look for ways to keep thing interesting, have fun with one another, and try not to take anything too seriously.

Being a younger guy, you’ve already got the fun and playful aspect down. As a young man, you’ve got a vibrant energy that will draw her in, and because she has probably lost that energy as she aged, she will want to cling to you and soak up that vibrancy.

How to Avoid Being too Playful

One of the main reasons why women of any age prefer older men is because they know who they are and what they want. They don’t play games and they are more focused on their goals. With that said, while an older woman may be drawn to your boyish charm, you’ve got to combine that with a strong show of purpose and confidence if you want to keep her by your side.

She may be wary of your age and fear that you are still searching for who you are or for where you are going in life. Because of this, you’ve got to show her that you don’t want to play games with her and that you want to be a serious contender for her heart. With this self-confidence, you may find that it makes you even more attractive to her.

Fulfill Her Fantasies

Older ladies like being considered a “cougar.” She thrives on getting hit on by younger men and it makes her feel empowered and incredibly sexy. Simply by just approaching her with the intention of flirting with her and winning her affection is going to give her a nice ego boost and make her feel sexy.

Not only does she embrace the thought of being a cougar, she probably has fantasized about being with a younger man. There’s a piece of her that will wonder if a young man like you can fulfill her sexual fantasies. If you want to be more than just a sexual fantasy for her, you also have to let her know that you are interested in her more than just that. Although there is no way of predicting how she will react, don’t be too surprised if she only wants you for a boytoy!