The Top Qualities Men Look For In Women They Want to Date

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1. She exudes confidence.

Men will be the first ones to tell you that there is nothing sexier than a woman who is comfortable with who she is. Ladies, word to the wise, stop asking superficial questions like if a pair of jeans make your butt look fat or if you’re the one woman he is talking to. Men hate having to reassure their women all the time about their beauty and how they feel about them.

2. She has to be intelligent.

You might think that men want a smoking hot airhead for a girlfriend, but the truth is, they want someone who is his equal. He wants a woman that is intelligent, can hold her own in a conversation, and knows a thing or two about life.

3. She doesn’t place too much value in material things.

While it is nice to have nice things, he wants a woman who can appreciate the simpler things in life. It’s true that he wants to be a good provider for you, but there is only so much he is willing to provide you with. Allow him to treat you to romantic evenings every now and again, but you shouldn’t expect to be wined and dined every night of the week.

4. She should be spontaneous.

There’s nothing wrong with having a plan every now and then, but men don’t usually live their lives mapped out perfectly like many women do. He wants a woman who can roll with the punches and be willing to go on a late night picnic at 9pm so you can sit under the stars. See? Romance and spontaneity can work together!

5. She goes with the flow.

Do you really want to know what will help keep your relationship on track and going smoothly? Relax. It’s just that simple! When you come home from work and the house is a little messy, take a deep breath and relax. Men don’t like to be with women who consistently nag about everything they do wrong or what they need done. Just… Relax.

6. She knows how to have fun.

Men like to have their ego stroked from time to time, and one of the easiest ways you can do that is to laugh at his jokes. Men want women who know how to have fun, laugh, and be playful. Even if you may be a CEO of a Fortune 500 company, you should be able to leave that serious side of yourself at the door and revert to that lovable girl-next-door he fell in love with.

7. She is sensual.

Attraction goes far beyond just the physical appearance — it is about the confidence you have and the air of sexiness about you. You should embrace your femininity and be flirty. Let him know that you are comfortable with your sexuality and you love being with him.

8. She is honest and trustworthy.

No one wants to be in a relationship with someone who lies and who can’t be trusted. It’s as simple as that. Perhaps, this is the top quality, because once you lose the trust in a relationship it is so hard, if not impossible, to get back.