Flirty Ways to Add Some Spice to Your Love Life


As much as we wish it wouldn’t happen, sometimes our love lives lack the excitement and passion that it once had. You needn’t worry about how to shake things up and revive the passion because we’ve compiled a list of things that you can do just that!

  1. Romantic Calendar Reminders – When he is in the shower, sneak onto his phone and set up reminders that display romantic thoughts. This could range from sharing a bubble bath together to something as sweet as “I love you.”
  1. Play Footsies – Whether you are out at dinner with your friends or you are simply at home eating at the dinner table, playing footsie is an innocent thing that lets your partner know you’re thinking about them.
  1. Park Under the Stars – When you go park your car in an open field on a star-filled night, it is a romantic gesture that allows you to admire the beauty of the night sky, but also allows you and your partner reconnect without any distractions.
  1. Keep the TV out of the Bedroom – When it is time for bed, most couples flip on the TV until they are sleepy. Instead of vegging out on the latest episode of Who, use this time to reconnect and talk about the day’s events.
  1. Bet on a Board Game – There’s nothing like a friendly wager to spice things up! Have a game night and bet on the outcome. The winner can make the loser do anything they want, so be prepared for anything!
  1. Play Make-Believe – Get in touch with your imagination and role play while on a date. Pretend you are people from completely different lifestyles (one could be a rich socialite and the other could be a humble farmer) and you have to imagine what it would be like for these two to fall in love.
  1. Take a Random Road Trip – One day when you both have no plans, pack clothes and items for an overnight bag and just go on a random road trip. Pull out a real map and just make turns all willy-nilly — who knows where you will end up?
  1. Plan a Treasure Hunt – Plan a treasure hunt around the house for your partner to come home to. The surprise could be anything you want it to be — their favorite dessert, a bouquet of their favorite flowers, a nice glass of expensive liquor, or you!
  1. Have a Water Fight – Another great way to bring some fun back into your relationship is by acting like children again during a no-holds-barred water fight. Not only can it be fun, but it can be a great way to get outside and cool off during the summer heat.
  1. Renew Your Wedding Vows – Fellas, one of the easiest ways to score romance points with the wife is to renew your wedding vows. Every woman loves to hear how important she is to you and she loves the opportunity to tell you just what you mean to her.