How to Flirt with Someone by Touching Them without Being Obvious

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It isn’t easy to flirt with someone you’ve got the hots for,  especially when you don’t get the time you want to with them. Fortunately, you can still let the other person know that you like them with a flirtatious touch and not overdo it.

The Secret of a Flirtatious Touch

You know that tingling sensation you get whenever someone that you’re attracted to grazes your arm for no apparent reason? You aren’t alone! When you get that unexpected touch from someone you have the hots for, it can change the rest of your day, and that warm fuzzy feeling you get can have lingering effects on your mood.
Someone else’s touch can be calming, but it can also stir a fire deep within us that can be delightful.

How to Flirt with Someone by Touching Them

When a man touches a woman when they are in the middle of a great conversation, he can’t help but feel some kind of sexual connection. When a woman feels a man’s palm at the base of her spine, ushering her through the door, she can’t help but feel a tingle coursing through her spine. These things happen naturally.

You may even experience nights where you’re engaging in a sleepy conversation with someone, and you can’t seem to pay attention to whatever is being said; however, the second they touch your hand to emphasize something, you’re much more alert throughout the rest of the conversation. Now, it isn’t because you were jolted back into reality during this boring story, you’re more alert by this physical touch because you’ve warmed up to your friend and you might even have realized that this person was someone you could be attracted to.

It’s just for that second that there are thoughts floating around your head that you’d like to do something more than be on the receiving end of a quick touch.

Why are we excited by a flirtatious touch?

You might be wondering why we feel these feelings in the first place. Why do we feel sudden and out of the blue pang of lust for a friend just because they touched our hand? The answer is simple. It’s all in your head. Your brain is programmed to respond to positive touches, and it makes us crave it more and more.

How do flirtatious touches lead to emotional connections?

The impact of someone’s touch is a lot stronger than our other senses. You know the ones, sight, smell, or sound. Let’s just think a minute over this little nugget of information.

Now, why is it some people find it easier to open up to people while they are partying? Why is it so damn easy to kiss someone while you’re busting a move out on the dance floor, regardless if it is just friends? No, it is not the alcohol or the music, although they do play a tiny role in all of it. It is actually all in the power of a playful touch.

You know, our sense of touch is incredibly strong, especially when it comes to being attracted by someone who touches you. That touch is so overpowering, it cancels out all other senses put together, even if only for a few minutes. Well, at least until one of you returns to your senses.

That means you can simply touch anyone the right way and attract them, better than you would have been able to do in any other way.

Flirting by an accidental touch doesn’t mean it is okay to start manhandling and pawing at the other person. It’s the subtle art of drawing a person closer to you with your lingering touch. But this form of flirting is never easy, and there’s a lot more chance of you being labeled slutty or horny rather than a cool cat.

Some people touch all the time, which makes decoding these signs all the harder. But if you know how to go about it the right way, and compliment your accidental touches with your tone and body language, you won’t just get the message across, you’ll have your date all over you!