What Do Women Really Want?


Okay fellas, this article is just for you. You know when you saw that enticing ad for Flirt.com? You know, that ad with all the really hot chicks in tank tops and it seems like they are smiling right at you? Yeah, this one.

We’re going to be real with you here, guys. It all starts with flirting. When you make that initial contact, you don’t want to act like you’re doing them a favor by reaching out to them! You have to act like you’re the lucky one to have found them! You’ve got to flirt your butt off if you want to score a date with her. But that’s not it. Once you do score that date, you have to continue to flirt!

Yeah, we know. It’s not rocket science and flirting is the logical thing to do, but you’d be surprised by how many men simply… Disappear after reaching out to the woman online. They would send the initial message saying that she’s beautiful; she has the qualities he’s looking for in a partner, yadda yadda yadda. You know the drill. But, after she’s reeled in, POOF! He disappears.

drooping man

These are the actions of a guy who is shy and doesn’t really know how to interact with women. To be honest, it’s understandable (to a point) because women can be fickle creatures. Sometimes it feels like you have to walk a mile in their shoes to understand what a woman really wants.

man smoking in front of mirror

Truth be told, women don’t want a whole lot. All she wants is for you to not disappear on her! If you show interest and you send her a somewhat charming message, she wants you to follow through. She wants you to show her that you are just another guy who talks a big game but when it comes time to act on it, you ghost on her. Now, we aren’t saying that you have to go to the gym and try yoga with her or meet her parents or anything crazy like that! Just be a man and ask her out. It’s that simple!

man in famale yoga class

We should warn you. Women aren’t going to jump on you (figuratively — or literally) for no reasons. She’s going to wait for you to prove to her that she isn’t going to be wasting her time on you. Sure, neither of you may not be looking for anything serious, but to waste even a small bit of time on someone who is so completely clueless and daft? It’s frustrating — for both people.

We aren’t suggesting that you should need to know how to read minds in order to meet women and score a date when you message a woman on Flirt.com. We are, however, suggesting that you know what you want and follow through. If you’re interested in getting to know someone, don’t flake out on her. Be a man and show her that you could be exactly the kind of guy she’s looking for!