How to Stop Being So Shy Around Attractive Women


If you know you’re a great guy and you have a lot to offer a woman, but find it difficult actually working up the nerve to talk to an attractive woman, we’ve got some tips and techniques that have been proven to work.

A lot of men are pretty shy when they meet an attractive girl, but it’s something you need to overcome if you want to find a girlfriend. With these tips, you’ll feel more comfortable approaching a lady, no matter where you meet her.

Step 1 – Say Hello to Everyone You Meet

Whether it is a man or woman, young or old, attractive or not, you want to make it a point to say hello. How can you possibly dream of saying hello to an attractive woman if you can’t even say hello to some random guy off the street? You can’t.

Step 2 – Make Eye Contact

When you are trying to figure out if someone is interested in you, you have to make (and maintain) eye contact. Now that doesn’t mean that you should stare at her all creepy-like. Instead, make eye contact and hold it for a few seconds. This will let her know that you noticed her and that you will be approaching her for an introduction.

Step 3 – The Approach

Within the first few minutes after making eye contact, it is the perfect opportunity to make your move. Walk over to her at a casual pace, don’t go too quickly because she may think you are over eager. If she is in a group of people, take a deep breath and try not to get overwhelmed. If you really want to talk to her, you’re going to have to approach her and say hello.

Step 4 – Be Prepared

When you are going to introduce yourself to an attractive woman, you’re going to want to think of a few questions to ask her. Remember, chances are you won’t be the only one who is approaching her and trying to talk to her. You can go the safe route and start off by asking generalized questions like what’s her name, where she’s from. If she seems receptive, you can go further and ask her what kind of fun she prefers, what kind of movies she enjoys, does she has a pet? With enough questions, the conversation will flow naturally.

You should be aware that when you are going to approach an attractive woman, it could be a little unnerving the first few times. Your nerves could get the best of you and you could stumble over your words or you could say something that you may regret later down the road. Don’t worry though!

Everyone goes through these situations and it will take a little of time until you feel completely comfortable being outside of your comfort zone. However, with a bit of practice, we are certain you will be chatting with the lovely ladies within no time.