How to Tease a Guy That You Are Into
So, you like him but how do you establish if he likes you and get his attention to demonstrate that you like him? Perhaps you want to test the water and see if he likes you without declaring it. Maybe you love the thrill of the chase and want to make him work for it. In order to be successful when it comes to being a tease, follow our top seduction tips and teasing tips.
The best way to tease a guy to get his attention
This is your first task. You have to get his attention. Perhaps he is someone that you really fancy but you aren’t sure if it is reciprocated. A few teasing techniques will get his attention if he is and if he is truly not interested, you will soon find out. But how do you establish that initial interest and work out if he is into you? The key is to take your time and be patient. Don’t go into full-on outrageous flirt mode – you may just scare him away or he may think this is how you act with all guys.
Keep it subtle – teasing is teasing
It is important that your teasing is subtle and sexy. Walking around half-naked in 4-inch heels is OK if you are trying to make a hard impact but when you want to get his attention, try more low-key flirting techniques. You don’t have to be the centre of attention to be noticed. In fact, those that are the centre of attention by a number of males tend to be the ones that seem unobtainable to all but the realty arrogant guys that think that they can get anyone.
Use your body language and subtle flirting
Girls playing with their hair is a sure sign that she is flirting and being playful. If you have long hair then just twiddle the ends of it, flick your hair (not full-on headbanging though) and sweep it back off your face, run your hands through your hair or take it down out of its hairband and shake it out. These sorts of things are subliminal messages but guys do pick up on it.
Re-igniting some fire in an existing relationship
Women don’t tease just to attract the attention of a new guy that they are into. For some, who have been in a relationship for a while, it can spice things up and add something else. For those who want to know how to tease a boyfriend, the same principles apply. You just need to know how to work it!
Use body language and body confidence to tease
If you are in a relationship already, you know that your partner is into you. Why would you be together if they weren’t attracted to you in the first place? The reasons that they were attracted to you in the first place are still there, you just need to know how to tease, use your body language, flirt and be playful and have them eating out of the palm of your hand.
Be suggestive and subtle in your approach
We are not talking about new sex techniques although these will certainly help. It is far subtler than this. New lingerie that you wear beneath your clothes, getting dressed and making sure he knows you’re not wearing underwear, getting dry after a shower with the door just open enough for him to see, licking your lips, being suggestive and walking around the house half naked are all great ways to tease a guy that you are dating.
Send a few suggestive pics
Teasing is teasing for a reason. You need to slowly tease the situation, fire up his imagination, drive him wild with desire. Try sending a few photographs but not full-on naked shots. You need to keep him guessing. Just a few playful shots – maybe underwear or a nice image of yourself looking particularly sexy. Just enough to make him smile and make him hard!
How to tease a guy sexually
Whether he is a new guy that you have only been dating a short while or someone you are in a relationship with, you have a strong and powerful weapon when it comes to the art of teasing a guy and that is your body and your own seductiveness. Guys love confidence so you need to be confident in what you do. Using your own body, you can tease a guy’s imagination and build up the sexual tension so that he can’t wait to get his hands on you.
There are many ways to tease a guy sexually
Whether it’s eating banana seductively or simply the text messages you send him, if you want to blow his mind before you even touch one another, you are going to need to get creative. Be bold and unexpected and subtle in your approach. Send him a text message about what is waiting for him later or tell him what you’d like to do to him. Don’t go full-on naughty though – just enough to keep him wanting more. Do it.
How not to be a tease
Of course, we can give you lots of tips on how to be a successful tease but let’s look at a few things that you shouldn’t do:
• Don’t try and come on to him when drunk – this is not a good look.
• Avoid dressing like a hooker – pardon the abruptness of this but it can look cheap.
• Don’t be too forthright – sometimes this can turn a guy off. They like to think they are in control most of the time – keep it light.
• Don’t flirt with his mates to get his attention – this will just make you look like either a man-eater or slightly desperate.
• Flirt and tease but don’t play games – he may just get tired of it and go after someone else.
Of course, some guys might like the forthright, brash approach but it is up to you to weigh up the situation and try and gauge the right balance.
Classic flirting tips that you should definitely try
While we have listed above the things you shouldn’t do, these subtle flirting techniques can help you get his attention and make him realise that you like him:
Establish eye contact and play with your hair
Just a subtle flick or twisting of your hair is enough to offer that playful, demure impression – if you can hold his eye contact at the same time without looking away then so much the better. Be mindful of your body language – make sure you are open and relaxed.
Be sure to look your best
There is a fine line between going over the top and getting it just right. The classic look is always a good bet – makeup but not too much, a well-fitted dress but not one that is too slutty. Some guys prefer girls without too much makeup. Obviously, this is quite difficult to determine if you don’t know what they like so be sure to strike a balance.
Touch him gently, talk to him and focus on him
Putting your hand on his arm and giggling, touching his hand and being very gentle are all quite seductive things that could send sparks of electricity if done right. We aren’t suggesting that you start rubbing his leg or anything – just a gentle touch. You can also take the time to find out more about him. Ask him questions about himself, what he enjoys, if he likes his job, what his goals are, if he plays sport etc. Listen to the answers and focus on him while you are talking.
Making the first move after teasing
If you have tried all of the above and he hasn’t asked you out yet, you may want to take the bull by the horns so to speak and make the first move. If he seems to be responding and you are getting along, he may just not have worked out yet that you are into him. Make the first move and ask him out on a date. If you are really nervous, you could just ask him if he fancies grabbing a coffee. Ass you spend more time together you will soon discover if you are into one another and he may well ask you on a date.
The art of teasing is to tease. Imagine if someone were to tease you, you need to give them enough without too much and just leave them wondering or wanting more. Take your time and don’t be in a hurry but make sure you leave in no doubt that you are into him so you don’t lose out to somebody else that might move in on him.